Key Takeaways

  • Infants double birth weight by 6 months and triple it by 12 months; posterior fontanel closes by 2-3 months, anterior by 12-18 months
  • Toddler safety priorities include poisoning prevention, drowning prevention, and fall protection - leading causes of injury death in this age group
  • School-age children (6-12 years) master rules, develop friendships, and engage in cooperative play; privacy becomes increasingly important
  • Adolescents need privacy, peer connection, and gradual autonomy; risk-taking behaviors (substance use, sexual activity) require non-judgmental education
  • Older adults face physiological changes (decreased renal function, altered drug metabolism) and psychosocial challenges (retirement, loss, chronic illness)
Last updated: January 2026

Developmental Stages Overview

Nurses must understand the physical, cognitive, and psychosocial characteristics of each life stage to provide appropriate care and anticipatory guidance.


Infancy (Birth to 1 Year)

Erikson: Trust vs. Mistrust

The primary task is developing trust through consistent, responsive caregiving.

Physical Milestones

AgeMilestone
2-3 monthsHead control, social smile, coos
4-5 monthsRolls over (front to back first)
6-8 monthsSits without support, transfers objects
9 monthsPincer grasp (thumb and finger), crawls
12 monthsWalks with support, says 1-2 words

Growth Parameters

  • Birth weight doubles by 6 months
  • Birth weight triples by 12 months
  • Length increases 50% by 12 months
  • Posterior fontanel closes by 2-3 months
  • Anterior fontanel closes by 12-18 months

Safety Priorities

SIDS Prevention ("Back to Sleep"):

  • Place infant on BACK to sleep
  • Firm, flat sleep surface
  • No loose bedding, pillows, or toys
  • Room-sharing without bed-sharing recommended

Choking Prevention:

  • No small objects (coins, balloons, toys with small parts)
  • Cut food into small pieces
  • No hard candy, popcorn, grapes, or hot dogs until age 4

Car Seat:

  • Rear-facing until age 2 or until reaching weight/height limits

Toddler (1-3 Years)

Erikson: Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt

Toddlers assert independence through choices, saying "No," and temper tantrums.

Characteristics

FeatureDescription
Language2-word phrases by 2 years; vocabulary explodes
PlayParallel play (alongside, not with others)
BehaviorNegativism, ritualism, temper tantrums
ThinkingEgocentric (Piaget's Preoperational)

Toilet Training Readiness (18-24 months)

Signs of readiness:

  • Stays dry for 2+ hours
  • Shows interest in the toilet
  • Can follow simple instructions
  • Indicates when wet or soiled
  • Can pull pants up and down

Nursing tip: Never force toilet training - it should be child-led.

Safety Priorities

Leading Causes of Death: Injuries, including:

  1. Poisoning - Lock up medications and cleaning products
  2. Drowning - Never leave unattended near water
  3. Falls - Gate stairs, supervise closely
  4. Burns - Lower water heater to 120°F, keep pot handles turned in
  5. Motor vehicle accidents - Use car seat correctly

Preschool (3-6 Years)

Erikson: Initiative vs. Guilt

Preschoolers explore, ask "why," and develop imagination.

Cognitive Characteristics (Piaget: Preoperational)

  • Magical thinking - Believes thoughts cause events
  • Animism - Inanimate objects are alive
  • Egocentrism - Cannot see others' perspectives
  • Transductive reasoning - Links unrelated events ("I was bad, so Grandma got sick")

Play

  • Associative play (plays with others but not organized)
  • Dramatic/imaginary play flourishes
  • May have imaginary friends (normal)

Safety Considerations

  • Teach body safety ("good touch, bad touch")
  • Stranger awareness
  • Bike helmet use
  • Supervision near water and traffic

Common Fears

  • The dark
  • Monsters
  • Being alone
  • Loud noises
  • Medical procedures

Nursing tip: Preschoolers fear bodily harm. Use bandages after injections - they worry about "leaking."


School-Age (6-12 Years)

Erikson: Industry vs. Inferiority

Focus on achievement, competence, and skill-building.

Cognitive Development (Piaget: Concrete Operational)

  • Logical thinking about concrete objects
  • Understands conservation
  • Can classify and organize
  • Follows rules

Social Development

  • Cooperative play (organized games with rules)
  • Same-sex friendships dominate
  • Peer acceptance increasingly important
  • Comparison to peers (can feel inferior)

Physical Changes

  • Steady growth (2-3 inches/year)
  • Permanent teeth replace primary teeth
  • Prepubescent changes begin (age 10-12)

Nursing Considerations

  • Provide explanations and choices
  • Maintain privacy during examinations
  • Use concrete, honest information
  • Encourage participation in care

Adolescence (12-18 Years)

Erikson: Identity vs. Role Confusion

Establishing personal identity is the central task.

Physical Development (Puberty)

Females:

  • Breast development (thelarche) - first sign
  • Growth spurt peaks
  • Menarche (average age 12.5 years)

Males:

  • Testicular enlargement - first sign
  • Growth spurt later than females
  • Voice changes, facial hair

Cognitive Development (Piaget: Formal Operational)

  • Abstract thinking
  • Hypothetical reasoning
  • Future orientation
  • Idealism

Psychosocial Characteristics

  • Peer group is paramount
  • Body image concerns common
  • Risk-taking behaviors increase
  • Sense of invincibility ("It won't happen to me")

Health Education Priorities

Provide non-judgmental education about:

  • Substance use (alcohol, drugs, tobacco, vaping)
  • Sexual health and contraception
  • STI prevention
  • Mental health (depression, anxiety, suicide risk)
  • Nutrition and body image

Nursing Approach

  • Respect confidentiality (within legal limits)
  • Interview adolescent alone for part of visit
  • Use open-ended questions
  • Avoid judgment
  • Provide privacy during examinations

Young Adult (18-35 Years)

Erikson: Intimacy vs. Isolation

Building close relationships and partnerships.

Characteristics

  • Physical peak performance
  • Career establishment
  • Partnership and family formation
  • Financial independence

Health Focus

  • Healthy lifestyle habits
  • Family planning
  • Stress management
  • Preventive care (screenings begin)

Middle Adult (35-65 Years)

Erikson: Generativity vs. Stagnation

Contributing to society and guiding the next generation.

Characteristics

  • "Sandwich generation" - caring for children and aging parents
  • Career peaks and potential career changes
  • Physical changes (presbyopia, hearing changes, menopause)
  • Chronic disease risk increases

Health Focus

  • Chronic disease prevention and management
  • Cancer screenings become priority
  • Cardiovascular health
  • Lifestyle modifications

Older Adult (65+ Years)

Erikson: Integrity vs. Despair

Life review - accepting life as meaningful vs. feeling regret.

Physiological Changes

SystemChanges
CardiovascularDecreased cardiac output, increased BP
RespiratoryDecreased lung capacity, weaker cough
RenalDecreased GFR, slower drug excretion
MusculoskeletalDecreased bone density, muscle mass
NeurologicalSlower processing, sensory changes
IntegumentaryThinner skin, decreased healing

Medication Considerations

  • Decreased renal function prolongs drug half-life
  • Decreased hepatic function slows drug metabolism
  • Increased body fat affects drug distribution
  • Polypharmacy increases interaction risk

Psychosocial Considerations

  • Retirement adjustment
  • Loss of spouse and friends
  • Relocation decisions
  • Chronic illness adaptation
  • End-of-life planning

Nursing Priorities

  • Fall prevention
  • Medication safety
  • Maintaining independence
  • Social connection
  • Advance directive discussions
Test Your Knowledge

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An older adult client is prescribed a new medication. The nurse understands that which physiological change requires careful monitoring?

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