Key Takeaways

  • 70% of life insurance purchases happen around life events—new baby, marriage, home purchase
  • Agents who follow up within 2 weeks of a life event close 60% more than those who wait
  • Non-sales check-ins after difficult events (job loss, death) generate 3x more loyalty and referrals
Last updated: January 2026

Life Events as Opportunities

Client Question: "How did you know to call? We were just talking about updating our insurance."

70% of life insurance purchases happen around major life events. Agents who follow up within 2 weeks of learning about an event close 60% more.

Events to Track and Follow Up On

EventWhy It MattersAction
New babyAdditional income protection neededCongratulate + review coverage
MarriageBeneficiary update, additional needsCongratulate + review
Home purchaseMortgage protectionCongratulate + discuss
PromotionIncome increasedAcknowledge + review
RetirementCoverage needs may changeCheck in + discuss
Death in familyMay prompt reflectionSensitive outreach
Roleplay Scenario

The New Baby Call

A client who just had a baby

Setup

You saw on social media that a client just had their first baby. Their current policy was purchased when they were single.

Client says:

*Sounds tired but happy* Oh, hey! Yeah, baby Emma arrived last week. We're exhausted but thrilled. What's up?

Practice Objectives

  • 1Congratulate them genuinely—don't jump to business
  • 2Ask about the baby and how they're doing
  • 3Transition naturally to discussing coverage
  • 4Remind them their policy was before the baby
  • 5Suggest a review when things settle down
Roleplay Scenario

The Job Loss Check-In

A client you heard lost their job

Setup

You learned through mutual connections that a client recently lost their job. You want to check in and see how you can help.

Client says:

*Hesitant* Hey... yeah, things have been tough. Got laid off three weeks ago. Looking for something new but it's slow. Why are you calling—is everything okay with my policy?

Practice Objectives

  • 1Express genuine concern for them
  • 2Don't try to sell anything—this isn't the time
  • 3Ask if they need help with anything
  • 4Discuss policy options if they're struggling with premiums
  • 5Be a resource, not a salesperson
Roleplay Scenario

After a Family Death

A client whose parent recently passed away

Setup

A client's father passed away recently. You want to express condolences and check in, but this is sensitive.

Client says:

*Subdued* Thanks for calling. Yeah, it's been hard. Dad was sick for a while, so we knew it was coming, but still... it's not easy.

Practice Objectives

  • 1Express genuine condolences
  • 2Don't mention insurance or business at all initially
  • 3Ask how they're holding up
  • 4Offer help if there's anything you can do
  • 5Only later, gently ask if the experience made them think about their own planning
Roleplay Scenario

The Retirement Transition

A client approaching retirement

Setup

A long-term client is about to retire. Their term policy was designed for working years.

Client says:

Three more months and I'm done! Forty years of working and finally I can relax. We're planning a big trip to celebrate.

Practice Objectives

  • 1Celebrate this milestone with them
  • 2Discuss how their insurance needs might change
  • 3Review whether current coverage is still appropriate
  • 4Explore any estate planning or legacy desires
  • 5Position yourself as their advisor for this new chapter
Test Your Knowledge

You hear a client lost their job. The best approach is:

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